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Dec 042011

 

Dear Friends,

You know, they say that one of the best ways to sustain a meaningful relationship is to keep talking to each other – whether that is just communicating the day’s events, or through a more in-depth conversation. It is an important part of keeping that relationship alive and fresh.

I would say it goes for all our relationships, whether it’s personal or communal – but perhaps it is particularly vital when considering what should be our number one relationship – our relationship with God.

Talking to God – aka Prayer – is the way we let God know how we are feeling – what we are doing – what we’d like to do – what problems we have…. and whilst it’s true that God already knows all of this before we even know it ourselves, God wants us to voice the words, to cry out in times of trouble, to simply let Him know how things are with our soul.

The Prayer-life we have, both as individuals and as a community of faith together, I believe, should therefore be at the top of our list of priorities in everything we do – but is it?

Instead of taking a few moments at the beginning and ending of each day to talk to God, we sometimes forget, or get distracted by the busyness of our lives. Talking to God then becomes an afterthought rather than a priority.

Rather than an on-going conversation with Him during our day, we try to squeeze in a few moments when we remember.

It’s a good job that God doesn’t really mind – He knows the failings of our humanity – but considering all the prompts and resources we have for prayer, both personal and corporate, do we really have any excuse worth voicing?

In Advent of 2009, the United Reformed Church – as part of the Vision4Life programme – began a year of prayer, with a booklet called ‘Praying our days’ – and followed that up this year with its prayer handbook entitled, ‘Still Praying’.

The Methodist Church is also focussing on a Year of Prayer in 2012, with many useful resources being produced.

Within Christ Church itself, there are many opportunities for both personal and corporate prayer. How many can you think of?

Perhaps the most recent development within the Prayer Life of our church has been the commencement of the ‘Prayer Breakfast’ – which takes place on the first Sunday of the Month (normally Communion Sunday). It starts at 9am with a time of discernment, reflection and prayer, led by one of the group. During this time, prayer can be spoken or unspoken – both are important, and as we are ‘amongst friends’, those nervous of praying aloud need not feel under pressure. It ends with the group leader bringing the time of prayer to a close – and the sharing of cereal and toast for breakfast.

Those of us who have attended Prayer Breakfast, I hope, would agree with me that this time of sharing together has been of immense value – and we would encourage everyone who is able to, to come along and try it out, because it’s not the same as being lead in prayer during the actual service. 

Imagine if we had the whole congregation of Christ Church gathered together, praying together our individual and collective concerns and hopes for our church, sharing in the fellowship of food together – God only knows what it would lead too!

The next Prayer Breakfast will be on Sunday 4th December at 9am – God and I would love to see you there!

Yours in Christ,

Helen   <><

Sep 042011

Dear Friends,
In June it was the annual URC Minister’s Summer School, held this year in the Lake District at the URC Windermere Centre. It is one of my favourite places to be and a beautiful part of the country, even when it is raining! However, we were rather fortunate with the weather, and it was good to meet with colleagues I hadn’t seen in quite a while.
Summer School is not (as some have been known to comment) a ‘jolly’, but rather it’s an intensive time of discernment and learning for URC Ministers and CRCW’s (Church Related Community Workers) of the North Western Synod. Though some free time is factored in, Summer School is not for the faint-hearted, as sessions can continue almost back to back from 9 in the morning until 9 in the evening. However, it does give an opportunity to think and reflect on things we would not readily come across in daily pastorate life. Continue reading »

Jun 052011

Dear Friends,

Anyone who has email communication will surely receive some that just make you stop and think.

I received one such email recently which had a link to a YouTube film clip – and if you are able perhaps you’d like to watch it too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzgzim5m7oU

In case you can’t, this short film illustrates the power of words to radically change your message and your effect upon the world. It was made by an online marketing company, but through the power of YouTube, it has received over seven and a half million hits. Continue reading »

Mar 062011

Dear Friends,

Life as a Minister can be challenging, rewarding, exhausting, and exciting – and that is often all in one day! But occasionally, there are times when I am encouraged to step back, ponder, and re-invigorate myself, away from the telephone and the emails.

One such occasion was very recently at the North Western Synod Minister’s Winter School. Entitled, ‘Lost for Words?, Evangelism through Welcome’, it was led by Francis Brienen, (the URC Secretary for Mission), Lawrence Moore, (URC Moderator Elect, and Director of the Windermere Centre), and Rev Stephen Collinson (NW Synod Training Officer). Continue reading »

Dec 052010

Dear Friends,

Life as a Minister can often be as confusing as it is rewarding. Let me explain….

At the moment there doesn’t seem to be a day goes by without some new initiative or mission opportunity dropping into my post-box or clogging up my ‘inbox’ – all of which call for either my own or Christ Church’s time and energy. There is just so much around to choose from – including the Vision4Life Year of Evangelism (which begins in Advent), and the launch of ‘Bible Fresh’ (a partnership of over 50 agencies, festivals and denominations, including the Methodist Church, who are joining forces to encourage and inspire churches and individuals to make the most of the Bible in 2011 – which is the 400th Anniversary of the King James Bible.)

As a church with two parent bodies, each clamouring for the attention of their ‘child’, the danger can often be that we either end up doing too much in the way of mission and evangelism, or not doing anything at all! However, all the material that is around can have the advantage of focusing our collective minds on how we ‘live for Christ, in the heart of our community’ (our mission statement!) – And providing we agree that whatever we do is right for our membership and is the will of God – what’s the problem!!

The problem is that faced with too much, we can become over stretched and overwhelmed – or like me, confused, bewildered!
The solution, I believe, is to firstly focus on the very thing that underpins our church and fellowship – Prayer!

Recently a group of Christ Church folks, met together to discuss how healthy our church prayer-life is (see article in this issue of the Messenger) – and I think we were all encouraged by what is happening – whether we are all aware of it or not. New ideas were expressed, and old ones revamped, but I think we all agreed that at the heart of everything we do, now or in the future, must be the notion of ‘taking it to God in Prayer’. Certainly, as I try to sift through everything that requires my attention, the first thing I try to do is to ask God’s advice – I find he usually knows what’s best for me!

Yours in Christ,

Helen
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Sep 052010

Dear Friends,

When you read this, I will hopefully be enjoying the bracing landscape and seascape of the North of Scotland – specifically Thurso and the surrounding area – a place the Higgin-Botham’s have not ventured to before!

Colin has great plans to resurrect his passion for fishing – though as yet he has no actual fishing gear – so I think the fish will probably be safe!

Basil will, I’m sure, enjoy racing along the beautiful beaches and sniffing lots of new and exciting places. Thankfully, whilst he may behave like a small child at times, there will be no danger on the long journey up to Thurso, of him asking ‘Are we there yet’!

As for me, I won’t exactly be putting my feet up for two weeks! Going to this remote part of the British Isles was in response to an email forwarded from the North Western Synod Office of the URC. They had received a request from the Church Secretary of Thurso URC, asking if any Ministers or Lay Worship Leaders would like to holiday up there (staying in the Manse) in return for taking their Sunday morning service. So after consulting Colin, we decided to jump at the chance to explore this beautiful part of the country. I’m not expecting the weather to be wall to wall sunshine, but a few good days to take in the sights would be welcome!

Whilst I’m away, there are exciting things afoot as the Preston Circuit of the Methodist Church becomes the new Preston Ribble Circuit. Sadly I shall miss the District Celebration at St Annes on the 5th September – but I hope that won’t stop some of you going and enjoying the fun!

Also, can you believe that my first service back at Christ Church will be our Harvest Celebration on the 19th September? This year I’d like to focus on Christian Aid’s ‘Be a part of a Wind of Change’ – which looks at the provision of a wind-powered well, bringing water to the desert of western Afghanistan. (Details in the Foyer) There will be an opportunity to make your own windmill in this All-Age Service – so come and enjoy the fun!

Friday the 1st October will be the Churches Together in Longridge Harvest Supper – for which tickets will be available. This is an opportunity to get together in fellowship and fun with our friends from St Paul’s, St Lawrence’s, St Wilfrid’s and Alston Lane.

October is also the month when we will focus once more on the Operation Christmas Child Shoebox Appeal – the launch date is Sunday the 17th, and our morning worship will reflect on the success of last year, and look ahead to what we can achieve this year. (Shoeboxes can be dropped off at Christ Church at the Coffee morning on the 5th November and then they will be dedicated during our worship on Sunday 7th November)

So, lots to look forward to, and before you know it, it’ll be Advent and the run-up to Christmas!

In the meantime – let’s celebrate everything that goes on at Christ Church. Now that we have ‘come of age’, let’s make our presence felt in Longridge as we seek to ‘Live for Christ, in the heart of the community’

Yours in Christ,
Helen
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Operation Christmas Child 2009

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Sep 202009

There are many constants in this life, and one of them is that as soon as the schools have gone back, and September is in full swing – the Supermarkets begin to roll out their Christmas Stock!
This means, of course, that the panic to get Christmas organised starts earlier and earlier each year, and for those of us who like a more spontaneous approach to the festive season, it’s just too much!image
However, there are some things which we do need to prepare for well in hand, and one of them is this year’s Operation Christmas Child campaign. For some this will be a very familiar event, but for others will leave them confused as to what is going on. So here is an attempt to let you know how our 2009 campaign will happen!
Now is a good time to begin collecting shoe boxes, Christmas wrapping paper and various items to go in the boxes. Covering the boxes with Christmas paper beforehand will save time later, and get you into the spirit of things!
If you are not sure whether you want to prepare a box yourself, or just contribute to one, take a look at one of the leaflets, situated in the church foyer. Then take it home and inwardly digest!
Each leaflet will give you details about what the shoe boxes are for and an idea of where and who they go to, the age ranges involved, and the gifts which are acceptable to include – in fact, everything you need to know!
If you decided that doing a whole box is too much, then please think about contributing with a few of the items. All donations can then be used to complete whole boxes.
Lastly, make a note in your diary about the ‘Fill a shoe box’ morning, to be held at Christ Church on the 31st October, from 9.00 – 12.30, where we will be setting up a ‘production line’ to complete boxes for the ‘Shoe Box Celebration Service’ on Sunday 1st November, and generally having fun, food and fellowship! (Bacon sandwiches, a possibility!?!)
So, nothing to it really!! – and the fact that many of you are already getting prepared and thinking ahead is great – so why not encourage a friend or neighbour to come along and help out too?
If there is anything you are not sure of, please contact me and I will do my best to help.
Thank you so much for helping to bring hope and a smile to many children who would otherwise never know this gift of love.

Yours in Christ,   Helen <><

Sep 062009

Dear Friends,

Recently I was invited to take part in something called ‘Time and Space’, which is an accompanied reflection for Ministers, organised by the United Reformed Church. Great, I thought, another thing to add to the list of ‘things to do’!!
The invitation came in early July, at about the time when I was busy preparing for two very important events – the wedding of our eldest son, Daniel, and the wedding of Susan and Ian Lawson – so I thought how nice it would be to reflect on these two ‘firsts’ as well as the many other positive aspects of ministry.
Unfortunately, as I was soon to find out, life as a ‘Minister in Pastoral Charge’ is not always so gloriously happy, because in the space of the few short weeks, up to the time of me writing this, I seem to have experienced the whole gamut of emotions – as well as feeling like I’d just had a trip on ‘The Big One’ at Blackpool Pleasure Beach!
I came back from Minister’s Summer School to find that a much loved member at my Fulwood church had died suddenly – then I took the funeral of a Longridge Lodge Resident – then it was off to Wales for Dan and Lowri’s big day – then my brother arrived from Canada for a visit – then our daughter Charlotte had her Graduation in Sheffield (and very nice it was too!) – then it was the Funeral of the Fulwood member – then it was Sue and Ian’s big day – then the newest member of the Turver family arrived – at about the same time as my brother-in-law, Martin, died very suddenly. So, as I write, we are preparing to make another trip down to Portsmouth for his funeral, which I will be taking.
What has sustained me, however, through all that has taken place, is not only the love and support of my family, friends and members of both my congregations, but the love and peace of God, who has richly blessed me during this time.
So when I do finally find the ‘time and space’ to ‘reflect’ on my two years here in Preston, and on the beginning of my third, I will continue to thank God that He brought me here, and ask for his continuing support and grace which allows me to be alongside some wonderful people during the peaks and troughs that life brings us.
Yours in Christ, Helen <><

Calling all members and friends of Christ Church, Longridge!
This year our Harvest Celebrations will be around the theme of ‘A Harvest of Talents’ – and this is where you come in!!
At Christ Church, we have many talented people, and many forms of talents – and I’d like us to incorporate them all into a bumper weekend of celebration.
Ideally this would begin by as many people as possible contributing a display or item to be displayed around the church, which represents what you are good at, or what you enjoy doing! So, come on, don’t be shy – no hiding your light under a bushel – let’s celebrate all the wonderful things we have to be thankful for at this harvest time – whatever that may be!
Next, once displays (including, hopefully, some traditional harvest goods) have been arranged in the sanctuary, around the windowsills, on tables, and in as many places as we can put them, during the week before the 20th September, wouldn’t it be wonderful to open up the church to anyone who wants to view all our hard work. We already have our Coffee morning on the Friday from 10am ‘till 12 – and with a few volunteers to open up and provide refreshments on the Saturday morning (10-12) – we can all come together on the Sunday morning at 10:45, in a service of thanksgiving, where I will be ably assisted by the Worship Group!
If you have any thoughts, questions, or suggestions, please contact John Spencer, or myself.
Thankyou!

Jun 012009

Dear Friends,

“What can I write for my pastoral letter”, I asked my husband and daughter the other evening. “How about ‘Keeping your faith in the political and economical climate’”, came back the reply! (Serves me right for asking!)

I was about to dismiss it, when I thought actually this is something which is affecting us all at the moment, in one way or another. Our newspapers are full of the ‘Ministerial Expenses’ revelations; European Elections and the threat of the BNP loom on the horizon; and the credit crunch has ramifications in all walks of life.

I suppose, firstly, we are reminded that no-one is infallible. Political party representatives who claim that they have just been following (and perhaps bending) the rules, have now been ‘found out’ – and hopefully whatever sort of system emerges from all the mayhem will prevent this sort of thing happening again.

Of course there have now been calls for the general voting public not to ‘punish’ those standing for the main political parties in the European Parliament by not bothering to vote at all, because of what has happened in recent weeks. We all have a duty of care in the way we use our vote, but not using it may mean that the racist and questionable views of those running for the BNP come out on top by default.

The ‘credit crunch’, the recession, whatever we call the financial climate at the moment, has had far reaching consequences for people all over the world and may take us years to recover from, and it’s hard not to be affected by news of those who have lost money, homes or businesses.

So do we as Christians feel we have an advantage when it comes to getting through difficult times in our lives? How do we keep our faith strong and positive, when all around us may be losing theirs?

Someone once said, ‘Faith is not faith until it’s all you’re holding on to’ – so I suppose when all we have is faith in the God who said ‘Keep your lives free from the love of money, and be content with what you have…. I will never leave you or forsake you’ – we will truly be able to
reply with confidence, ‘The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can anyone do to me?’ (Hebrews 13:5-6)

Dr Martin Luther King, Jr. is quoted as saying, “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase” – so although we may not see the bigger picture, or be able to prevent all the evil which invades our world, putting our faith and trust in God, who loves us
unconditionally, will enable us to ride the storms of life.

I leave you with this last thought from D Elton Trueblood (American Quaker author and theologian), who said,

“Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation.”

Yours in Christ, Helen <><

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